UNIQUE AND SEXY WALLPAPER

This has been a very interesting survey. According to it, 25 % of women think about food every half an hour & 10 % think about sex over the same time span.

This survey was carried out by a slimming group & they interviewed 5000 men & women. But some women feel bad about their eating habits.

• 60% of women in relationships are not happy eating in front of their partner
• 50% of women in relationships are shy undressing in front of their partner
• 40% of women feel as though they are constantly dieting
• 13% of women choose low-calorie meals instead of what they would actually like when eating out

Many women even pretend that they are on a diet. I know such people. They haven’t shed any weight in all these years but they pretend to be on a diet every time we meet them. And some women believe that everyone else is on a diet, cause they are on a diet. When my sister got ill last year, her doctor was adamant that she wasn’t ill, cause she didn’t seem ill. Instead she told me that she was on a diet & yet she eats everything. She thought that I had been on a crash diet. She also suggested few tests to me. It was really too much, but people presume everything just by looking at someone who is not as fat as them.

I don’t know about others but I don’t think about food or sex after every half an hour. It’s not possible.

American women underwent over 9 million cosmetic procedures last year. Americans spent almost $10.5 billion on cosmetic intervention in 2009. And at that same time 2 million dogs were euthanized in the country.

These are 10 reasons why a person should get a dog instead of a facelift:

1. They offer a lifetime of love & nothing could actually be compared to that love. They just make a place in your heart.

2. They are cheaper. It’s pretty obvious…maintaining & looking after a dog is far cheaper than a facelift.

3. They make you happier & it’s good for your health to have a pet.

4. They often have better breath. A puppy's breath is special and sweet; your plastic surgeon's breath is a crapshoot.

5. They can be your hang-out buddy.

6. They won’t cause talking behind your back. They say people won't mock and sneer at you behind your back if you get a dog. But I think people will talk behind your back.

7. They fetch - You can teach your dog to do tricks & that is hard work but also fun.

8. You can cuddle up with your pet & feel a lot better.

9. They aren’t nearly as risky

10. And last but not least, they care.

Pakistan is not the only place where humanity is insulted on a daily basis but I live here & so I get to know the views of people. Even in this particular case, many people are just blaming the victim. They only focus on her profession & career. It also reminded me of how people were questioning the innocence of Muneeb & Mugheez. People die & people get raped & murdered, but we always have elevated apes who just go on judging the victims.

Rape is a crime. Even if a slut gets raped, you don’t have the right to justify the heinous nature of the crime. How can you say that it’s okay if a sex worker is raped, but it’s a different story if any other girl is raped? In any case, even when a girl from a noble family is just harassed, there is no one on her side. People only find reasons to justify an evil act. That’s all I have seen over the years. And what makes it all the more sickening is the fact that we have women who hold such obnoxious views about victims.

I think in 1996, Andaleeb’s boyfriend threw acid on her face. She was a Pakistani actress. I don’t know what happened to her, but when I mentioned this ugly incident to a couple of females, they just blurted out that actresses deserve this kind of treatment. Things aren’t any different even today.

I don’t believe that women like to create myths about themselves. I don’t think any woman will tell you that she has been molested or harassed or even raped at some point unless there is some truth in it. Moreover, rape is an act of terrorism. No one has the right to insult you or your body.

I’m aghast to hear the views of educated men & women. They just have no compassion. If a person commits suicide, they judge his faith. If a slut is raped, they give justification that she was carrying a gun & it might have happened with her consent. Even if a really naïve girl is raped, they start finding faults in her character. Every time it’s the female who provokes. Nobody sides with the victim. God forbid but are you going to presume the same thing if your own daughter or loved one gets raped in this manner?

Very conveniently people use the word whore for women, if you don’t like their lifestyle. The concept of fallen women is well accepted by both men & women, but at the same time, there is no concept of fallen men. I don’t think women do everything all by themselves; they need partners. But there is just no fucking word for those men.

I’m so sick & tired of hearing this phrase ‘ghar ki izzat.’ The fact is…larki ki koi izzat nahin hoti. If she’s married to someone, then people respect her. If the father is a big shot, then people respect her.

Even people will hate me for having these views. In any case, I don’t give a flying fuck to it. Frankly speaking, I don’t even care anymore if slaves read me, cause my writings are not for the usual minds. Reading is one thing, but understanding what’s being said explicitly & what’s not being said is another thing.